November 12, 2009

Esteem Your Self

| November 12, 2009
I think it was long time ago from my last post, i am on hiatus. Ok, enough about Intermezzo. In this post, i want to talk about Self Esteem.

Self esteem, yes self esteem is about your point of view to appreciate your self in any situation. At the moment where you get big trouble, when your mind break spirit of your soul, when you fall in the track of your life and any bad situation.

when you get pressure from your job, you can take a break time (several minutes) to rest your mind, its one of several way to esteem your self.
self esteem

You = what you think


In any situation you must esteem your self not in bad situation only. The shape of your self esteem can implemented on several ways. You can upgrade your skill. If you like music. You can sing in bath room. You don't think that your sound like tin but sing from your heart. Or you can play guitar, Piano, or play football etc.

have you think that you born in this world you so perfect? You different from the other. You is You. You is not me, You is not them. You are so special. Now find the reason why your feel disappointed about your self! it just a fool for one's pains.

Stand Up your body in front of the mirror,Now look at the body that stand front of you. You see a perfect person, yes? its you. Don't ever justified brittle your self.

Now, i want to share my way to esteem my self. when i get pressure from my works, I play music on my laptop. Listen the music make me enjoy in this situation. Listen the music that inspire you to do more.

You can esteem your self with other way that you like. Never give UP! Because you very special!

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13 comments:

  1. @cantigi :
    masih belajaran *blekak - blekuk*

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  2. mungkin self-esteem inilah yang sering diabaikan calen gagal beberapa waktu yang lalu, sehingga sempat stress dan kehilangan akal setelah tahu dirinya ndak terpilih.

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  3. (maaf) izin mengamankan KETIGA dulu. Boleh kan?!
    self esteem... :mikir:

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  4. Hh,,...Esteem....saya ada beberapa bukunya(bentuk Soft copy) but, I read it yet hohoho....

    Thanks for sharing your way to get your Esteem Mas Ciput

    Best Regards always,

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  5. Owh, I have added your Blog into My Blogroll....

    Hopefully I can study English for Your Blog Mas Ciput :)

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  6. @Bpk. Sawali :
    Self esteem (penghargaan terhadap diri sendiri) itu memang perlu, karena HARUS menghargai diri sendiri.

    @alamendah :
    Boleh sobat, silahkan diamankan

    @Bocahbancar :
    Terima kasih sudah dimasukkan diblogroll nya sampeyan, sebagai gantinya saya juga menambahkan link sampeyan diblog saya.

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  7. I think you get the concept wrong :) "Self-esteem", actually, refers to your OVERALL evaluation towards yourself as a person. It's the way you see yourself; whether you see yourself as a caring man, a competent worker, a fast learner, a happy person, a victim, etc.

    Self-esteem doesn't depend on day-to-day situation, such as "when you're in big trouble". It has nothing to do with easing your mind for a several minutes when you face a big trouble. Nope! Self-esteem must be developed, established, and it will stay until we face a major change that forces us to reevaluate it.

    So, the most important thing is to build a "healthy" self-esteem. It should be positive, but not over-estimation. Once you've developed a healthy self-esteem, you will be ready for any troubles. Of course, it is natural to feel a little bit wavered by trouble - we are human, after all - but... with healthy self-esteem, you'll recover from that soon.

    PS: BTW, I do love that picture. I use it as my Blogger Avatar, actually ;)

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  8. BTW, the more appropriate psychological term for what you described in this posting is: catharsis :)

    Catharsis is any activity done with the purpose of easing tension. We are all entitled to ease our tension. Our "self-esteem", however, will differentiate the type of catharsis you choose :)

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  9. kucingnya lagi mimpi tuh, jadi raja kucing ya mas...

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  10. @pak mufti:
    kaya kucing tetangga saya *doreng-doreng*

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  11. Where is the next Post Brother..???

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